Tonight, I was sitting in an A.A. meeting as we read page 100 of the Big Book. We were discussing working with others, spiritual fitness, and the remarkable things that become possible when we place ourselves in God’s hands. One man shared something he once heard from another member of A.A. Every morning, as soon …
Dr. Jung told Rowland. Rowland told Ebby. Ebby told Bill. Bill told Dr. Bob. Thank God someone told me. That simple progression is more than a clever slogan on a T-shirt I recently saw. It’s the story of Alcoholics Anonymous. It’s the story of my recovery. And if you’re sober today in A.A., it’s your …
Yesterday, at the Texas State AA Convention, I heard Andy D. from Edmond, Oklahoma, describe himself during active alcoholism as a “big shot in the homeless shelter.” The phrase stayed with me. I have never lived in a homeless shelter, so I will not pretend to understand that experience. But I know exactly what it …
I was sitting in a speaker meeting last night and as the speaker was sharing her experience with inventory (specifically the Fourth Step), she kept using the phase, “When I was introduced to myself..” in relation to the causes and conditions of her failure. It really hit me. She kept using that phrase over and …
(A Follow-Up to “God’s Will vs. My Will”) In the quiet moments of early sobriety, when the mental fog begins to lift and the reality of a life rebuilt starts to take shape, many members of Alcoholics Anonymous find themselves asking a simple question: What now? We have taken the initial steps. We have admitted …
There was a time when nearly every strong emotion in my life seemed to point toward the same solution. A difficult day? Drink. A painful disappointment? Drink. Angry at someone? Drink. Lonely, afraid, exhausted, embarrassed, rejected, or overwhelmed? Drink. Even happiness could become a reason. A good day deserved a celebration. A bad day required …
When My Mind Gets Loud, I Know Who’s Talking A few years ago I had a situation in my life that I had been stressing over. I had spent lots of time arguing with myself over a decision that, in hindsight, wasn’t all that complicated. I had built a case for one option. Then demolished …
If there’s one thing alcoholics are exceptionally good at, it’s being absolutely certain. Certain we aren’t as bad as those people. Certain we can quit whenever we really decide to. Certain everyone else is overreacting. Certain the problem is our job. Our marriage. Our parents. Our anxiety. Our luck. Our boss. The economy. The bartender who pours too heavy. …
Dear Stepping Stones Family, We are overjoyed to share news of a historic homecoming made possible with help from generous supporters. Yesterday, Stepping Stones successfully acquired the most important artifact in 12-Step history—the original hand-edited manuscript of Alcoholics Anonymous—the “Big Book.” This foundational document will return to the place where Bill and Lois Wilson lived, …
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