Legacy of Unity

Tradition Four: Learning to Be Free Without Forgetting Others

Tradition Four: Learning to Be Free Without Forgetting Others

From the “Learning to Love Well” blog series on the Twelve Traditions “Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or A.A. as a whole.” There is something wonderfully liberating about Tradition Four. After Tradition One teaches us that our common welfare comes first, Tradition Two reminds us that no individual is …

When the AA Meeting Isn’t Healthy

When the AA Meeting Isn’t Healthy

In my almost four decades of attending AA meetings, I have been to some incredibly spiritually healthy meetings, and then some that felt like something very different from that. It’s been my experience that groups can develop dysfunctional cultures just like families and organizations can. We walk into Alcoholics Anonymous and often times find something …

Tradition One: Learning to Put “We” Before “Me”

Tradition One: Learning to Put “We” Before “Me”

From the “Learning to Love Well” blog series on the Twelve Traditions “Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon A.A. unity.” There is something almost counterintuitive about beginning the Twelve Traditions with unity. After all, most of us arrive in A.A. because of an individual problem. I can’t stop drinking. My life …

Is Tradition Seven Really About Money?

Is Tradition Seven Really About Money?

Spiritual Principle: Responsibility There is a bowl that sits in my home filled with loose change. Pennies. Nickels. Dimes. Quarters. Nothing particularly impressive. It’s just where I toss the change that accumulates in my pockets. But sitting right in the middle of all those coins is a little die with one word printed on it: GOD. Years ago, …

We Before Me: Living the Spiritual Principle of Unity

We Before Me: Living the Spiritual Principle of Unity

Tradition One—Short Form: “Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon A.A. unity.” Tradition One—Long Form: “Each member of Alcoholics Anonymous is but a small part of a great whole. A.A. must continue to live or most of us will surely die. Hence our common welfare comes first. But individual welfare follows close …