From the “Learning to Love Well” blog series on the Twelve Traditions “Each group should be autonomous except in matters...
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When the AA Meeting Isn’t Healthy
In my almost four decades of attending AA meetings, I have been to some incredibly spiritually healthy meetings, and then...
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Tradition Three: Learning to Love Without Conditions
From the “Learning to Love Well” blog series on the Twelve Traditions “The only requirement for A.A. membership is a...
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Tradition Two: Learning to Trust Something Other Than Ourselves
From the “Learning to Love Well” blog series on the Twelve Traditions “For our group purpose there is but one...
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Routine Trained My Feet
Tonight, the man chairing the discussion meeting at my home group picked what I initially thought was a rather obscure...
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Tradition One: Learning to Put “We” Before “Me”
From the "Learning to Love Well" blog series on the Twelve Traditions “Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery...
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New Blog Series Launch: “Learning to Love Well”
A new Take the 12 blog series about practicing spiritual principles at home, at work, in A.A., and with God....
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When AA Suggestions Become Cliché
“Turn it over.” “Acceptance is the answer.” “More will be revealed.” “Just do the next right thing.” “Let go and...
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It’s Not If. It’s When.
I was sitting in my home group last night when a woman with solid sobriety said something that stopped me....
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When a Sponsee Relapses
Where does responsibility end? What belongs to them, and what belongs to me? The phone rings. Or a text arrives....
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Are You Ready?
“Healing may give you a new life, but it’s gonna cost you your old one. Are you ready?” There’s a...
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Spiritual Make-Believe
I was in a Big Book study tonight when someone asked a question I had never thought to ask. We were...
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Are You Sponsorable?
Last night I was listening to Corey D. from Owensboro, KY, speak at a meeting at our Area Convention when...
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AA Tomorrow Begins With How I Show Up Today
Last night, my sponsor and sponsor brothers gathered to read Bill Wilson’s “AA Tomorrow,” written for AA’s twenty-fifth anniversary in...
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Grieving in Sobriety
AA teaches us how to live without drinking. It doesn’t prevent our hearts from breaking. This has been a hard...
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Meetings Are NOT the Solution
There. I said it. Meetings are NOT the solution. I realize that may sound like a strange thing to say...
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When “Acceptance” Becomes Avoidance
I’ve heard some version of this countless times in Alcoholics Anonymous: “I just need to accept it.” And sometimes that is exactly...
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The Recovery Scorecard: Why Isn’t My Life Better Yet?
I’ve heard some version of this from newcomer sponsees more times than I can count: “I put down the bottle. I’m...
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Let the Bulldozer In
Hidden in Plain Sight I was in a Big Book study tonight, reading “The Family Afterward,” when another member pointed...
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Is Tradition Seven Really About Money?
Spiritual Principle: Responsibility There is a bowl that sits in my home filled with loose change. Pennies. Nickels. Dimes. Quarters. Nothing...
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