Legacy of Recovery

On Forgiveness

On Forgiveness

I was sitting in a spiritual book study this morning and the topic of forgiveness came up. I love how in this particular study group that it’s a true discussion, learning, and sharing session. We are allowed to ask dumb questions (or at least questions WE think are dumb). One of the women in the …

On Making Your Bed

On Making Your Bed

On Sunday, November 2, 2024 (which is getting close to being 4 months ago at the time of this writing), I had literally nothing on my calendar for that day except to go to church. Having a “free” Sunday is very unusual for me, but I was grateful. At that same time, I was going …

The Ashes Behind Me

The Ashes Behind Me

I was sitting in a meeting tonight at my home group and we were reading, “Doctor Bob’s Nightmare.” It was an amazing meeting and as members were sharing their identification with Dr. Bob, one of our members shared something that their sponsor had shared with them I don’t think I’d ever heard around the topic …

A Step Six Exercise

A Step Six Exercise

On this Christmas Eve, I sat down this morning with one of my sponsees to read about Step Six. He and I have already taken the Steps together and when we were done, we decided to go back and spend some time specifically on Steps Six and Seven by reading (together) a non-Conference approved piece …

Inventory: Why?

Inventory: Why?

What Does a 4th Step Have To Do With Not Drinking? When I first came into A.A., I had no understanding of why it was important for me to look at my life and how I had caused hurt & harm to those around me. I had no idea why inventory was a serious thing. …

Practical Experience Shows….

Practical Experience Shows….

Recently at my home group in a literature discussion meeting, the chair chose to read from page 95 in the chapter, Working With Others, and started with the first paragraph… “PRACTICAL EXPERIENCE shows that nothing will so much insure immunity from drinking as ­intensive work with other alcoholics. It works when other activities fail.” They …

Fear, the Problem and the Solution

Fear, the Problem and the Solution

I didn’t know when I waked in the doors that you would be teaching me things that would help me deal with the life I had burned to the ground (unbeknownst to me…lol). I thought maybe, just maybe you would help me better understand if I was an alcoholic or not. What I DIDN’T know …

Bait & Switch

Bait & Switch

How many of you reading this post came to A.A. to stop drinking? How many of you thought you had a drinking problem and someone told you A.A. could fix it for you? Tonight at my home group, the chair pulled tonights topic from the Big Book page 62… “This is the how and why …

Making Mistakes vs. Defending Them

Making Mistakes vs. Defending Them

Good morning family, My sponsor and I were talking with one of my sponsees this week on the topic of “old behavior.” If you’ve read page 567 in the 4th edition of the BB, you know that the first paragraph says: “The terms “spiritual experience” and “spiritual awakening” are used many times in this book …