Legacy of Recovery

A Lightbulb Moment

A Lightbulb Moment

I was sitting in home group tonight in a literature discussion meeting and I heard two things that I needed to hear from one of our members, she said, “Experience requires action. And it’s more than just information acquisition.”  We were having this conversation in regards to the spiritual awakening. I don’t think most alcoholics …

Still Messy

Still Messy

God didn’t clean you up so you could pretend you were never messy. Your story is someone else’s hope. There is something about that sentence that makes me uncomfortable. And I think it should. Because after we have been sober for a while, it is surprisingly easy to become embarrassed by the person who first …

To Wives Isn’t Just for Wives

To Wives Isn’t Just for Wives

The Chapter Alcoholics May Be Missing I’ve heard it more times than I can count. “I hate To Wives.” “I skip that chapter.” “It’s outdated.” “Bill had no business writing it.” And I understand some of the criticism. The language belongs to another era. The assumptions about marriage, gender, and family life reflect 1939, not 2026. And there is an …

The Prayer We Know by Heart but Forget to Hear

The Prayer We Know by Heart but Forget to Hear

There may be no prayer more closely associated with Alcoholics Anonymous than the Serenity Prayer. We say it at meetings. We say it before difficult conversations. We say it when life isn’t going our way. We say it when we’re afraid, angry, confused, or simply trying to get through the next five minutes without making …

Morning God, I’m Clocking In

Morning God, I’m Clocking In

Tonight, I was sitting in an A.A. meeting as we read page 100 of the Big Book. We were discussing working with others, spiritual fitness, and the remarkable things that become possible when we place ourselves in God’s hands. One man shared something he once heard from another member of A.A. Every morning, as soon …

Big Shot in the Homeless Shelter

Big Shot in the Homeless Shelter

Yesterday, at the Texas State AA Convention, I heard Andy D. from Edmond, Oklahoma, describe himself during active alcoholism as a “big shot in the homeless shelter.” The phrase stayed with me. I have never lived in a homeless shelter, so I will not pretend to understand that experience. But I know exactly what it …