Posts by: Rick W.

To Wives Isn’t Just for Wives

To Wives Isn’t Just for Wives

The Chapter Alcoholics May Be Missing I’ve heard it more times than I can count. “I hate To Wives.” “I skip that chapter.” “It’s outdated.” “Bill had no business writing it.” And I understand some of the criticism. The language belongs to another era. The assumptions about marriage, gender, and family life reflect 1939, not 2026. And there is an …

The Prayer We Know by Heart but Forget to Hear

The Prayer We Know by Heart but Forget to Hear

There may be no prayer more closely associated with Alcoholics Anonymous than the Serenity Prayer. We say it at meetings. We say it before difficult conversations. We say it when life isn’t going our way. We say it when we’re afraid, angry, confused, or simply trying to get through the next five minutes without making …

Leadership Is Not an Accident: Choosing the Right Trusted Servants

Leadership Is Not an Accident: Choosing the Right Trusted Servants

Every Fall (or every other Fall), a familiar ritual unfolds throughout Alcoholics Anonymous. Groups elect GSRs. Districts elect DCMs. Areas elect officers, committee chairs, delegates, and other trusted servants. Most elections are conducted respectfully and prayerfully. Yet if we’re honest, we’ve all heard reasons for electing someone that have very little to do with leadership. …

Morning God, I’m Clocking In

Morning God, I’m Clocking In

Tonight, I was sitting in an A.A. meeting as we read page 100 of the Big Book. We were discussing working with others, spiritual fitness, and the remarkable things that become possible when we place ourselves in God’s hands. One man shared something he once heard from another member of A.A. Every morning, as soon …

Big Shot in the Homeless Shelter

Big Shot in the Homeless Shelter

Yesterday, at the Texas State AA Convention, I heard Andy D. from Edmond, Oklahoma, describe himself during active alcoholism as a “big shot in the homeless shelter.” The phrase stayed with me. I have never lived in a homeless shelter, so I will not pretend to understand that experience. But I know exactly what it …

Introduced To Myself

Introduced To Myself

I was sitting in a speaker meeting last night and as the speaker was sharing her experience with inventory (specifically the Fourth Step), she kept using the phase, “When I was introduced to myself..” in relation to the causes and conditions of her failure. It really hit me. She kept using that phrase over and …